Marie Claire
       
 

Men confess: what makes them fall in love?

WHEN SHE TOOK CARE OF ME

After a particularly bad day of golf, my girlfriend asked me if I wanted some
soup she had just made. I said no. Then she came out with a steaming bowl and said, “Eat some. It’s good for you.” I knew right then that 40 years from now, after a particularly bad day of golf, there would be nothing more I could ever want than this same beautiful woman serving me a bowl of soup because it’s “good for me.” Jack McLaughlin, 35, bartender

I REALIZED I COULDN’T BE AWAY FROM HER

I didn’t know I was really in love with my girlfriend until nine months into our relationship, when I had to move away for business. In the past, detachment had come easily for me, but this time it was different; I couldn’t stand being away from her. I felt empty inside, like part of me was missing. After just three months, I said to hell with the job and moved back home with her. Ronnie Daigle, 28, data entry clerk

SHE LOOKED AT ME
My fourth date with my now-wife was one of the most perfect evenings in my life. But it wasn’t the food, the beautiful weather, the moon and stars we were under, or the impressive facts I was learning about her – it was simply the way she gazed deeply into my eyes. It gave me such a warm, comforting feeling, like maybe there was a person for me out there after all – and maybe I’d found her.
Marc Hammel, 30, graphic designer


SHE TOOK CHARGE!

On a cold, rainy night in Atlanta, some friends and I stood outside a sold-out concert. Dejected and devoid of tickets, we were about to walk to the nearest dive and drown our sorrows when out of nowhere came a brown-eyed beauty in biker boots who wheeled and dealed with the doorman to get us all in. Right then and there, I fell in love with that woman’s grab-it-by-the-balls attitude – and today she’s my wife.
Brett Chapman, 30, music supervisor

SHE DIDN’T EMBARRASS ME
My first date with Sharon was great until after I bent over to kiss her and, by accident, I farted. Mortified, I pulled back from the kiss, expecting the entire evening to be ruined. But without changing her expression, Sharon smiled and simply said, “Call me tomorrow.” I thought: This is a woman I could marry. And a few years later, I did!
Dan Gutman, 33, film editor

 

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